Selecting the proper lube is clearly a matter of national concern. We’re talking stimulus package in a bottle! So here’s the deal. The wrong lube can create problems for women in a variety of ways while the right lube greases the wheels of pleasure. Bad lubes for intercourse have ingredients that sound like something you [...]
Archive for March, 2009
Slip & Slide in the Bedroom…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged couples couneling, delayed ejaculation, Dr. Neil Cannon, early ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, GLBT counseling, lube, lubes, lubrication, masturbation, premature ejaculation, retarded ejaculation on March 28, 2009 | 3 Comments »
How to get more sex by calling your partner Cutie Patootie…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Couples counseling, erectile dysfunction, GLBT counseling, marriage counseling, MIT, nicknames, sex, sex therapy on March 24, 2009 | 1 Comment »
A recent study by the whiz kids at MIT who were apparently bored by their Trig 3 class found that couples who refer to each other by a pet name have sexier relationships than those who don’t. According to the MIT brainiacs, “sugar-button” will get you laid more often than if you refer to your partner [...]
Free from sexual secrets…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Angie Zapata, gender dysphoria, gender identity, gendier identity disorder, GLBT counseling, Oprah, sex therapy, sexual identity, sexual minorities, sexual orientation, transsexuals, transvestites on March 21, 2009 | 8 Comments »
This is going to be the only lengthy blog post I have ever written, so pull up a chair and I will share a story that is not only amazing, but important. This is a story I hope you will share with your friends, family, colleagues, and your children; especially your children, because they are [...]
Sex is 90% of a relationship…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged couples couneling, divorce, Dr. Neil Cannon, GLBT counseling, intimacy, love, marriage counseling, relationships, Selecting a therapist on March 20, 2009 | 1 Comment »
When the sex is bad it can feel like it is 90% of the relationship. It’s like a big dark cloud that hovers overhead. On the other hand, when things are good, sex seems like only 10% of the relationship because it works easily and naturally. For many couples putting things in perspective is the [...]
Is choking the chicken impacting your relationship?
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged choking the chicken, couples couneling, delayed ejaculation, Dr. Neil Cannon, GLBT counseling, intimacy, marriage counseling, retarded ejaculation, sex addiction, sex therapy, spanking the monkey, wank, wanker, wanking on March 14, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I am often asked how much masturbation is too much. The two most frequent times the question comes up in counseling is when porn is involved and or when couples aren’t having the sexual frequency they want. If wanking is interfering with your job, your relationships, and or you are forgetting to feed the fish, [...]
Sidestepping sex…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged communication, conversation, Couples counseling, divorce, Dr. Neil Cannon, GLBT counseling, marriage counseling, relationships, sex, sex therapy on March 12, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Yesterday I knocked over a trash bag in my kitchen. (Before you gross out, it wasn’t the gooey stuff, just stuff to recycle). Anyway, since then — me, Dr. Neat Freak has sidestepped that trash bag for the last 24 hours instead of picking it up. What’s up with that? Then it hit me; many of us [...]
Come again…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged anorgasmic, climax, Couples counseling, Dr. Neil Cannon, female orgasm, GLBT counseling, intimacy, marriage counseling, orgasm, orgasms, pre-orgasmia, preorgasmia, relationships, sex, sex denver, sex therapy on March 10, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
It was 9:03pm on a Friday night and I will never forget the text message I received. It was from a 40 year old woman who had never had an orgasm. When she first came to see me 8 weeks earlier she felt hopeless because she had never climaxed. She heard her friends talk about [...]
Sexual potential…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Couples counseling, divorce, Dr. Neil Cannon, GLBT counseling, marriage counseling, sex therapy, trauma on March 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
There was a young city girl who was taken by her uncle to see her first glimpse of the country. The little girl was very excited to see the farm animals but when they arrived the only thing in the stable was manure. Her uncle was disappointed but the little girl looked up and with wisdom [...]
Sex Addiction…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged couples couneling, david duchovny, Dr. Neil Cannon, marriage counseling, michael douglas, neil cannon, sex addict, sex addiction, sex therapy, sexually compulsive behavior on March 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
There are a multitude of reasons supporting the fact that the term “sex addiction” is clinically erroneous and serves no purpose in helping people to heal. That said, regardless of whether we label the behavior as sex addiction or sexually compulsive behavior, make no mistake that the pain caused to a relationship can be devastating. Just ask [...]
Sex and the law…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged beastiality, sex therapy, zooaphilia on March 1, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
When Dr. Kinsey published his research in 1948 about the sexual behavior of the human male he announced that 17% of men living in rural America have sex with farm animals. Today it’s illegal to have sex with animals in most states. Brian James Hathaway of Wisconsin tried to beat the system by having intercourse [...]
