Sexual desire is the number one concern people bring to my sex therapy practice. One partner wants more and one partner wants less. This is particularly true with new parents. Mom’s hormones are running rampant after the birth of a child, the baby is screaming bloody murder, the new dad doesn’t know what to do, [...]
Archive for January, 2009
Hanky Panky for Mommy & Daddy…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Couples counseling, Dr. Neil Cannon, holiday stressors, intimacy, Love in the tmie of colic, marriage counseling, new parents, parents and sex, relationships, sex, sex therapy on January 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Seasonal Affective Disorder Wreaks Havoc on Sexual Desire…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, libido, low libido, low sex, no sex, SAD, Seasonal Affective Disorder, sex, sexual desire on January 27, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
It is 4 degrees below zero here in Denver tonight. Yes kids, that’s Fahrenheit and that doesn’t account for wind chill. The weather and a few sad clients remind me of just how many people become depressed from the cold short days and decreased sunshine. There is no reimbursement code for “cabin fever” so now [...]
Bubble bath sex…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged couples couneling, date nights, Dr. Neil Cannon, GLBT counseling, intimacy, lgbt, love, marriage counseling, relationships, sex, sex denver, sex therapy on January 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Date nights are a great way for couples in long term relationships to stay connected, enhance intimacy and give a boost to their sex lives. Here are a few tips to make date nights work. First, schedule date nights at the beginning of each month and stick to the schedule. There are always reasons for [...]
Fetishes are all good in Sweden…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, DSM, fetish, fetishes, GLBT counseling, ICD, normal sex, sadomasochism, sex, sex therapy, transvestites on January 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Mental health professionals across the globe have a little known “secret code book” used to diagnose mental illness, i.e., depression, anxiety, etc. In the US it is called the DSM while in Europe it is called the ICD. Psychiatrists generally get paid by insurance companies and use the codes in this 6 pound, 800 page guerilla of a [...]
New sexual attitudes in America…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged condoms, Dr. Neil Cannon, safe sex, safer sex, sex, sex therapy on January 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
In light of the focus on politics this week this is just too cute to pass up. www.doctorcannon.com
One secret to never tell your spouse…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged body image, Couples counseling, Dr. Neil Cannon, sex denver, sex therapy on January 18, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Let’s just suppose there are one or more features on your body that you are not happy with. Imagine that! Well, it’s perfectly natural and okay to have those thoughts, but it is a big mistake to share those thoughts with your partner because ultimately you will convince him or her not to like that part of [...]
My 52nd Birthday…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, gay, glbt, lgbt, love, sex, sex therapy on January 17, 2009 | 1 Comment »
As I turned 52 tonight I couldn’t help but think about what I really wanted for my birthday and it hit me — Unconditional love and friendship. As I had dinner at a lovely restaurant with two friends, Dave and Pam, I realized that my birthday wish had come true. These are not just friends, but life-long friends, [...]
Delayed ejaculation — no need to wait any longer…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged delayed ejaculation, Dr. Neil Cannon, early ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, retarded ejaculation, sex, sex therapy on January 16, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
It is 12:51AM and the fire alarm in my Denver high-rise is screaming; “fool, jump before you die a miserable death.” My little black cat, the real Dr. Kinsey has left the warmth of our cashmere comforter and is hiding under the bed. Three big rig fire trucks are here to save us with sirens howling. [...]
Penis Size is Shrinking in America….
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, early ejaculation, normal sex, penis size, premature ejaculation, sex, sex therapy, Viagra on January 13, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I regularly get clients who are concerned about their penis size. Not surprisingly, as Internet porn grows, an increasing number of men think their own penises are too small. After all, porn is the primary source where many men get their ideas about what erect penises look like. Hence, the average guy doesn’t feel like he measures up. [...]