Halloween is a wonderful time for couples to be creative, add spice to your love life and break old sexual patterns. This is your chance to be a pirate or a wench; a stern master or a sexy love slave; a superhero; or perhaps you would like to be a member of the majestic court. Whatever your fantasy, this is the one day [...]
Archive for October, 2008
Halloween is the ultimate adult holiday…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, Halloween, sex on October 31, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Your RX for more sex…
Posted in Uncategorized on October 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The stock market has fallen by almost half in the past 15 months and the market isn’t all that’s down. That’s right, difficult economic times are affecting sex and intimacy. How can it not? Many clients are asking what they should do. There is no simple answer however here are some thoughts. First, try to focus on what you [...]
Why do I like Sex Y & Z…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Dr. Neil Cannon, sex therapy, why on October 23, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
A common question I hear is “why”. Why do I get turned on by this? Why does he want me to do that? We can explore causation and it is certainly natural to wonder however what I try to help people focus on is the “what” rather than the “why.”. The why is interesting to [...]
Compromise sounds nice on the surface, but…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Compromise, Couples counseling, Dr. Neil Cannon, sex therapy on October 21, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
For a long and happy marriage, compromise can cause as much pain as pleasure. Compromise by couples is a noble effort that is unfortunately often frat with problems that can lead to resentment. The book, “The New Rules of Marriage” says it nicely. “No matter how hard you may try to take the high road, [...]
The caveman cometh…
Posted in Uncategorized on October 13, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
One more thought about early ejaculation in response to my last post. If we look at early ejaculation in a prehistoric context it makes sense that men ejaculate quickly. Cavemen were actually at great risk when they had sex. During sex man was extremely vulnerable to attack by his enemies so the faster he ejaculated during intercourse the safer he was. Perhaps rapid ejaculators are [...]
Early ejaculation…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Add new tag, early ejaculation, neil cannon, premature ejaculation, sex therapy on October 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Many men experience early ejaculation and it is hardly surprising when we think about it. We are a time sensitive culture that wants instant gratification, fast food, and movies on demand. Men that talk fast and eat fast, often come fast as well. Being quick and efficient may be the very strength that makes you effective at work however it [...]
Am I normal?
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged neil cannon, normal sex, sex therapy on October 6, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
A frequent question I hear in my office is “Am I normal?” My response is to try a different question, i.e., am I happy? For many people letting go of worries about normality is a giant step toward internal peace and happiness. Remember too that being normal isn’t all that it is cracked up to be. Albert Einstien was hardly [...]
Sex on the wrong side of the tracks…
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged sex, sex therapy on October 3, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
One way for couples to spice things up is to have sex in unusual places, afterall variety is the spice of life. The kitchen table or on a blanket under the stars are all good ideas. Well, last week a couple in South Africa added spice up their relationship by having sex on a railroad track (not my idea!). Not surprisingly [...]
